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Spiritual Intimacy Weekend Couples Retreat

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    11 - 13 July, Stanford
Western Cape, South Africa

A weekend retreat for couples to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful connection to each other aligning with Taoist principles of balance & harmony, the meeting of heaven and earth, and Tantra’s direct embodied experience of intimacy as divine expression.

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Embark on a transformative weekend journey designed for couples seeking to ignite deeper connection, cultivate sacred intimacy, and explore the profound potential of their relationship. 

 

Join Kirsty Wagner and Zendrik van der Merwe in a sanctuary of trust and exploration, where ancient wisdom meets contemporary practice.

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Kirsty blends kaula tantra, ancient feminine wisdom  (body cycle awareness, rhythms of nature, the art of letting go and relaxing) with modern empowerment practices to help women cultivate confidence, magnetism and deeper intimacy in all areas of life.

Zendrik blends knowledge of non-dual practices in zen, tantra and The Tao, with Jungian depth psychology and his extensive experience in somatic bodywork. He teaches tantric and taoist self mastery arts for men, partner yoga and dual cultivation practices for couples.

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A Crucible for Transformation:

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Relationships serve as both a shelter and a mirror, reflecting our deepest selves. This retreat invites you to view your partnership as a crucible for transformation, a space to become aware of unresolved patterns and facilitate profound spiritual growth. 

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Through the blending of Tantra and Tao, and transformation process work with archetypes and shadow,  we’ll guide you towards a deeper understanding of yourselves and each other.


Tantra and The Tao

Tantra, with its inclusion of sexuality as a sacred expression of life, and Taoism, with its focus on the intentional circulation of sexual energy for harmony, vitality and longevity, offer powerful pathways to cultivate connection and intimacy with your partner. We will also explore how aligning with your own essence and harmonizing your inner masculine and feminine energies strengthens the foundation of your relationship.

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We will be offering the combined knowledge and experience of these two facilitators.



Our retreat will include:

  • Women/Shakti circle: Explore the essence of womanhood, the deep feminine, and the creative power of surrender. principle that creates through letting go.

  • Men/Shiva circle: Explore the essence of manhood and the embodiment of manliness.masculinity

  • Heart Opening & Emotional Intimacy: Cultivate devotional listening, clear communication, and learn healthy boundaries that help you open up more easily..

  • Tantric Energy Practices & Sensual Tantric Touch: Learn the art of tantric energy practices to awaken your energy. Tantric touch and how to use touch to create the intimacy you desire. Discover the power of reverence and presence in exploring sensual connection.

  • Sensuality and Radiance: Awaken your body's wisdom through sensual pleasure, movement, and self-expression.

  • Receiving and Surrender: Learn to soften and deepen your capacity to receive, and allow pleasure without control.

  • Partner Yoga: Harmonize your energies through gentle stretches and synchronized connection.

  • Somatic Bodywork: Release emotional and physical blockages through guided touch.

  • Chakra Toning & Harmonizing: Activate and harmonize your energy centers with sound, intention and visualization..

  • Tibetan Pulsing (Hara or Womb Pulsing): Awaken deeper emotional intimacy through sustained presence and energetic exchange.

  • Consent & Desire, protocols of engagement: Explore the dance of polarity, cultivating safety and authentic expression of yin and yang, in games, movement and dance.

  • Lifting the Veils of Intimacy: Engage in rituals designed to deepen the bond between partners, creating a space for authentic connection.
     

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Through these transformative practices, you'll learn to:

  • Clear and activate your magnetic field for authentic intimacy.

  • Cultivate trust, sensitivity, and energetic presence.

  • Release emotional and physical blockages.

  • Enhance communication and deepen emotional intimacy.

  • Embrace sensuality and celebrate the sacredness of sexuality.

  • Re/discover the art of conscious relating.

 

Join us for a weekend of profound connection, exploration, and transformation.

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